Virtual Dating. Cool.. not cool?!

The internet has turned into a typical spot to begin and support connections of all types. Be that as it may, there are advantages and disadvantages to these types of relationships. So what are those pros and cons of online dating and relationships?
Pros

Online Interactions gives users the opportunity to evaluate and the time to think, making sure they say they perfect response.

This relationship can be between people in different regions, different countries, different sides of the world.

It is cheaper as none of the partners have to spend any amount on a dinner or a lunch date.

They can easily share their likes and dislikes by means of sharing video files and common interests on the internet.

Both parties are given a chance to be attracted to the inner beauty and not be blindsided by the person’s physical attributes.

Non- matching people can be sidestepped without ever needing to make contact. It’s “partner Shopping” in a global supermarket of humanity.

In virtual connections, life stresses are not as pervasive, which prompts less clash and additionally fulfilling connections, as indicated by different scientists.

On the web, individuals have a tendency to use more helpful styles to oversee clash in close connections.

Humans have some basic instincts that help them to judge another person based on steady observation. This way of scrutiny isn’t possible over social media or dating sites.

If you are a shy person, you can be at ease when you are chatting. Online dating helps you to be bolder than you would normally be if you were dating the same person offline. This is a boon.

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Cons

People don’t realize but they waste a lot of time being online. Sometimes they even tend to miss out on their routine activities like sleeping, eating and other hobbies. It also adds up to the physical inactivity of the person. The questions you should be asking yourself is if you are really ready to be spending that much energy, time and money for someone with whom you would not have physical interactions everyday.

Most of the people and especially teenagers gets addicted and obsessed with it. Most
of the time they keep wondering about the comments that they might receive on their latest photos, messages and videos; thereby reducing concentration towards their academics and other activities.

Some dating sites are not fully functional until we pay their fees. Some sites may even charge up to $29.95 per month. This might discourage people since dating is supposed to be uncomplicated and there is no need to shell out money in the first place.

What if the other person has a tendency to show-off & like being praised & gain more and more attention? It also promotes deceit if the picture placed in the person’s profile is way different from his actual personality. Such photographs can give you the dishonest pleasures but not the perfect feeling.

When you meet a person online with whom you can finally have a relation, chances are there that he/she resides in a different state/country. This is the hardest gap to fill
b’coz travel fares may not come cheap.

When you connect with the person online, you have a set of mental picture of the person. However, you can never get the real intentions of the person. Now if there is a meeting with the online buddy in person, it might even turn out to be disappointing ‘cause the interactions online and in person might differ.

We can never really figure out what kind of attraction we feel towards the person online. Sometimes we may just need a person to talk to when we feel lonely to share our talks and emotions and gain sympathy from them. This might not be necessarily a
true attraction towards the person in the first place.

One can never guarantee that the person whom they are dating with isn’t dating with someone else at the same time.

It’s just like people do not have the skills to meet other people out in public and hence they turn on to a computer and build up this virtual profile. A lot of efforts and not much fun in it when all you have to do is just sitting and chatting with the person next to you.

Further, it’s usually difficult to find the perfect match through online dates as most of the people use it for fun and not being actually serious with their relationships.

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